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“One Without The Other”
“One Without The Other”

As the car stopped, her heart raced. she tried to focus…and listen. The goggles she wore to conceal her blindfold from others during the drive seemed heavier now. she could hear the driver’s side door opening. she felt a rush of air as He left the car. she smelled…was that jasmine? The car door closed….

Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster
Self-Aftercare Basics For the Single Kinkster

When you play hard as a solo kinkster, it may be up to you to care for yourself in the hours and days following a scene. Being single in the BDSM scene can be fun…You get to try playing with people you meet at munches and events, you get to experiment with new kinks and…

“Showtime!”
“Showtime!”

“Let’s go, my toy soldier.” After sitting at the table in the back, watching everyone, it was time. The heat rushed to his face. His heart was pounding out of his chest. Searching Regina’s face for an indication of what he should be feeling, he was rewarded with a smile and a wink before being…

“Surviving The Fall”
“Surviving The Fall”

He did that thing she loved! she was in the shower, singing loudly, off key like a MF. she caught herself and laughed. Girl, that was a week ago! Regroup! she smiled as she remembered how He was prepared to pamper her, but she asked to be left alone. He graciously obliged her, but brought…

How Surrounding Myself with Kinksters Made Me Finally Accept My Kinks
How Surrounding Myself with Kinksters Made Me Finally Accept My Kinks

As John Donne said, “No man is an island, entire of itself…Every man is a piece of the continent, a part of the main.” While that applies to your favorite hobbies like reading, video games, or raising an army of potted succulents, it also applies to your kinks too. As I found out, being surrounded…

“Ready…FIGHT!”
“Ready…FIGHT!”

she walked into the garage and saw Him. He was standing next to the heavy bag, breathless, sweaty and SMILING. “Come get some.” He gestured towards her gloves. she took everything in…the music, the smells, the energy…it was GLORIOUS. she realized she needed this. More importantly…HE knew it. she got a few good punches in…

“Okay, I’ll say it…AGAIN”
“Okay, I’ll say it…AGAIN”

Heyyy, Y/y’all! Let’s talk about Labels. Some find them helpful or even a requirement; others find them unnecessary and frustrating. Truth is, W/we all believe in O/our bones that W/we know the best way to describe U/us and that’s all that matters. If folks don’t get it, oh well. Noted and understood, F/fam. But let’s…

“Kink With A Wink”
“Kink With A Wink”

she was up early, prepping for the class she would be teaching later that morning. He asked if she was fully prepared. “Yes, Sir. this slave enjoys teaching this module, Signore.” she wondered…did she sound arrogant? Could He tell how nervous she was??? Dammit! Of course! That’s why He’s so quiet! “Let’s help you remain…

Keeping the Kink Alive When You Are Apart
Keeping the Kink Alive When You Are Apart

We all know that long distance relationships are hard, but what if you add BDSM into the mix? Both BDSM and long distance relationships require a lot of work to maintain just by themselves. If you happen to combine the two, you are in for a interesting ride. I know from personal experience that doubt…

“Just. Like. That.”
“Just. Like. That.”

she had a rough day. After being pulled in a million different directions and putting out fires that she didn’t even start, she just needed peace. After Daddy called her and listened to her venting He quietly responded, “I’ll fix it, baby. When you complete your tasks, go ahead and soak in the tub. See…