submission
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Domination, as well as some key points that Dominants should be aware of to maintain a healthy dynamic. A large portion of that involved certain responsibilities that fall on the Dominant, but they are only part of the dynamic. This week we’re going to have a look at…
Bad Daddy Drew
Domination
Under the Umbrella Last week we discussed Discipline, the importance it serves in a BDSM dynamic, and some of the parts that help in establishing and maintaining discipline. While discussing this I made mention of Dominants and submissives, which are both common roles each partner takes on in a BDSM based dynamic. The next couple…
Discipline
Under The Umbrella We’ve already mentioned that many dynamics adopt a D/s (Dominant/submissive) or M/s (Master/slave) heirarchy, and the purpose is to provide stability and training for the submissive to allow them to better serve their Dominant. To achieve this goal requires discipline and disciplinary action. Today we’re going to break down some of those…
Ending a Power Exchange Dynamic
Ending a power exchange (PE) relationship is not like ending most vanilla relationships. The depth of trust, structure and interdependence involved means that a Dominant has a profound responsibility to navigate the transition with care, respect and ethical integrity. Whether the relationship was lifelong or short term, whether it ended amicably or due to conflict,…
SmutHustler
Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Positivity in Power Exchange
Life isn’t all sunshine, orgasms and perfectly executed protocols. Sometimes, it’s tough. Work sucks. Bills pile up. Stress sneaks in, like an uninvited guest who won’t leave. And in a power exchange dynamic, both Dominants and submissives can feel the weight of these everyday struggles. But here’s the kicker, your mindset can make or break…
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford to fudge, dance around or sugarcoat, be brutally honest about your needs, wants and desires. Not “hint at,” not “hope they’ll just understand,” not “assume it’ll all work out.” Full, unfiltered, cards-on-the-table…
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder 1, 78 years old: “Do y’all still have meet ups? You know, eat, drink, laugh, sizing each other up? Hee hee” Elder 2, 81 years old: “We used…
Regina Charlisa
Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can arise is insecurity, which can manifest in various forms, such as doubts about one’s worth, fear of being replaced, or uncertainty about one’s role. Acknowledging, addressing, and managing insecurity is crucial for health and…
The Conversation Continues
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. It’s like a Teacher calling me out in class.” They both chuckled. R: “Okay, a few folx have questions for you. Thanks again for doing this! Ready?” B: “READY! Let’s do it!” R:…
Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between your inner toddler and your adult self. On one hand, you might think, “I need my partner to bring me breakfast in bed every Sunday.” But do you really need…
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