Why Mindset Matters: The Power of Positivity in Power Exchange
Life isn’t all sunshine, orgasms and perfectly executed protocols. Sometimes, it’s tough. Work sucks. Bills pile up. Stress sneaks in, like an uninvited guest who won’t leave. And in a power exchange dynamic, both Dominants and submissives can feel the weight of these everyday struggles. But here’s the kicker, your mindset can make or break…
SmutHustler
Brutal Honesty
The Non Negotiable Foundation of a Power Exchange Dynamic When stepping into a new power exchange dynamic, there’s one rule you can’t afford to fudge, dance around or sugarcoat, be brutally honest about your needs, wants and desires. Not “hint at,” not “hope they’ll just understand,” not “assume it’ll all work out.” Full, unfiltered, cards-on-the-table…
Let’s Get Together!
Heyyy, y’all! this girl spends a ton of time around her Elders and she is learning a LOT about what “The Scene” was like. For example… Elder 1, 78 years old: “Do y’all still have meet ups? You know, eat, drink, laugh, sizing each other up? Hee hee” Elder 2, 81 years old: “We used…
Regina Charlisa
Navigating Insecurity in Kink and BDSM
Kink and BDSM, like any intimate relationship, comes with their unique challenges and complexities. Among the most prevalent issues that can arise is insecurity, which can manifest in various forms, such as doubts about one’s worth, fear of being replaced, or uncertainty about one’s role. Acknowledging, addressing, and managing insecurity is crucial for health and…
The Conversation Continues
R: “Welp…here we are again. Hello, Brian.” He smiled, then frowned.B: “I still have trouble processing hearing you say my name, honestly. It’s like a Teacher calling me out in class.” They both chuckled. R: “Okay, a few folx have questions for you. Thanks again for doing this! Ready?” B: “READY! Let’s do it!” R:…
Needs vs. Wants in Relationships
The Ultimate Balancing Act When it comes to relationships, deciphering what you need versus what you want can feel like a tug of war between your inner toddler and your adult self. On one hand, you might think, “I need my partner to bring me breakfast in bed every Sunday.” But do you really need…
Safety is the Subject
Welp…here she is AGAIN…restrained and ready. Also anxious and excited. Then her favorite sound…HIS VOICE. “Before the gag is in place, let’s review the taps, slave.” she steadied herself and said, “One tap for physical, Lord. Two taps for mental, Lord. Three taps for spiritual, Lord. Four taps for emotional, Lord.” He lovingly squeezed her…
How to Keep the Spark Alive
Let’s face it, even the most passionate of relationships can slip into a comfortable rhythm over time. You’ve gone from all night marathons of affection to, well, binge watching Netflix in separate blankets. And while there’s nothing wrong with that, we all love a cozy night in, maintaining excitement in your intimate life can feel…
BDSM and Mental Health
Balancing Pleasure and Well-being Welcome explorers of desire! Are you ready to take a dive deep into an essential yet often overlooked aspect of BDSM, mental health. Engaging in BDSM can be thrilling, transformative, and deeply fulfilling, but it also requires a keen awareness of emotional well being. Let’s explore how to balance the intoxicating…
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Selfishness and submission
she sat quietly, looking at her phone in disbelief. The message simply said, “You got a minute?” Seems like a basic thing. she knew different because she had been here before. Daddy needs His dinner early tonight. Boss needs that report before lunch tomorrow. One more load to finish. HELL NO I DON’T HAVE TEN…
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