What is it? 

Simply put. It involves sliding a grapefruit up and down a man’s shaft while giving him a blowjob. It is said to embody the feeling of both sex and a blowjob, all at the same time.

How does it work?

First, get that grapefruit ready. The fruit should mimic a mouth or a vagina so Angel recommends a room or warmer temperature, to achieve this effect. Let the grapefruit sit and become room temperature and then run the grapefruit under warm water. Make sure to test it to make sure it’s not too hot. Using the microwave isn’t recommended due to uneven or overheating because after all, you don’t want to make your encounter hot that way (ouch). Others who have tried the technique have also suggested refrigerated may be the way to go, but Angel says that could make the experience a real miss for your partner. Make sure to roll the fruit in your hands to get it all loose and juicy. Then, cut off each end of the grapefruit at the navel. Now cut a hole or push through the center to create an opening that will accommodate his shaft (not too big, not too small). Before we get to the action, safety first. Ask your partner if they have a citrus allergy, you don’t want to discover that in the heat of the moment. Using a condom is also recommended, not just because safe sex is sexy and prevents disease and infection, but it can also prevent irritation and stinging. 

To introduce the grapefruit into the bedroom, it has often been recommended to surprise or blindfold your partner as to not put them off, but we never recommend anything that isn’t consensual. If they’ve consented to being surprised, then awesome, if not, discuss this little adventure with your partner first. A blindfold can still be fun to incorporate just make sure as always, it’s consensual.

Now to the action, get your partner hard. It can be a good idea to engage in other foreplay that isn’t in direct contact with his member to avoid any pre-fruit friction but as long he’s at attention you’re good to go. Next apply the condom and slip the fruit on. Twist the fruit up and down the shaft while giving him a blowjob simultaneously until he reaches his epic moment. Congratulations, you just grape fruited your partner. 

*Tip: Don’t skip the clean up!

This technique can be a sexy, juicy mess so you may want to have towels down or handy and shower immediately afterwards. Make sure your partner gets good and cleaned up and pat dry to avoid any irritation.

Just remember to take it slow and have a kinky good time.  

There are so many awesome ways to use and incorporate food and especially fruit into the bedroom but for this article we’re going to focus on the grapefruit. That’s right grape fruiting, pioneered by Auntie Angel, this is a blowjob technique that is said to be mind blowing. 

What is it? 

Simply put. It involves sliding a grapefruit up and down a man’s shaft while giving him a blowjob. It is said to embody the feeling of both sex and a blowjob, all at the same time.

How does it work?

First, get that grapefruit ready. The fruit should mimic a mouth or a vagina so Angel recommends a room or warmer temperature, to achieve this effect. Let the grapefruit sit and become room temperature and then run the grapefruit under warm water. Make sure to test it to make sure it’s not too hot. Using the microwave isn’t recommended due to uneven or overheating because after all, you don’t want to make your encounter hot that way (ouch). Others who have tried the technique have also suggested refrigerated may be the way to go, but Angel says that could make the experience a real miss for your partner. Make sure to roll the fruit in your hands to get it all loose and juicy. Then, cut off each end of the grapefruit at the navel. Now cut a hole or push through the center to create an opening that will accommodate his shaft (not too big, not too small). Before we get to the action, safety first. Ask your partner if they have a citrus allergy, you don’t want to discover that in the heat of the moment. Using a condom is also recommended, not just because safe sex is sexy and prevents disease and infection, but it can also prevent irritation and stinging. 

To introduce the grapefruit into the bedroom, it has often been recommended to surprise or blindfold your partner as to not put them off, but we never recommend anything that isn’t consensual. If they’ve consented to being surprised, then awesome, if not, discuss this little adventure with your partner first. A blindfold can still be fun to incorporate just make sure as always, it’s consensual.

Now to the action, get your partner hard. It can be a good idea to engage in other foreplay that isn’t in direct contact with his member to avoid any pre-fruit friction but as long he’s at attention you’re good to go. Next apply the condom and slip the fruit on. Twist the fruit up and down the shaft while giving him a blowjob simultaneously until he reaches his epic moment. Congratulations, you just grape fruited your partner. 

*Tip: Don’t skip the clean up!

This technique can be a sexy, juicy mess so you may want to have towels down or handy and shower immediately afterwards. Make sure your partner gets good and cleaned up and pat dry to avoid any irritation.

Just remember to take it slow and have a kinky good time.  

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Odaxelagnia: A fetish or kink for biting

Biting for the purposes of kink or fetish can be intense and animalistic, and often manifests itself when one is highly aroused. Its important to remember that arousal does not have to be exclusively sexual. Any emotion that heightens adrenaline can send one into a state of arousal and biting, in particular, this is one of my favorite expressions of it.

If you’re new to biting, don’t just bite your partner and especially not in the heat of the moment. If you want to try it out, please take it slow, do your research, and experiment with your partner before you’re in the throws of passion. You also want to be careful not to apply too much pressure. How do you know what’s too much pressure for your partner, try it out slowly and carefully. Try different ranges of mouth grip, different areas of the body and varying pressures to see what works. Inside the body there are bones, joints, ligaments, tendons, nerves, blood vessels, and muscles and if you apply too much pressure or apply it in the wrong location, you can cause lacerations and damage to these if you’re not careful. For the one on the receiving end, it’s important to pay attention to your body and communicate it with your partner. You don’t want to ignore any involuntary twitching, immediate numbness, severe pain or anything that just doesn’t feel right to you, because not letting your partner know there is a problem could lead to permanent damage. 

For those a little more experience and looking to get a little more primal, just remember there really is a limit to how much tearing (unless you’re into scarification) can be done without leaving any permanent after effects.

Sensitive Areas:

When it comes to biting there are some areas you should be more careful with and some that it may be best to avoid all together. Use caution when biting in the nether region, the upper insides of thighs, the stomach, and neck. You should avoid the spine all together and the front of the neck and wrists which contain major arteries. You should also avoid or exercise extreme caution when it comes joint areas, the face or the backs of joint areas.

**Good areas to bite: butt, arms, calves, thighs, and the back(avoiding the spine).

Aftercare:

Ok, the human mouth is just a dirty place and can be home to a wide variety of infectious bacteria. Saliva can contain at least 50 different species of bacteria. So when biting during play, make sure you clean any bitten area immediately after play with mild soap and water. If any skin is broken apply antibiotic cream and cover with bandages to make sure wounds don’t get infected.

Please remember this is not a comprehensive guide or intended to be any kind of medical advice. Before you take a bite of this kink, like with any kink play, do your research, communicate with your partner and take it slow.

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